Okay, I’ve been kicked in the head by the spirit, this is truly something I wanted to get out and share. It has something to do with my child and how he learns. It’s summer true but since I home school Skylar I tend to keep him going with something besides video games. Today I wanted him to do some activity in his Brain Quest Workbook and chose a page for him to do. And right from the start here comes the frowny face. ” Mom I don’t wanna do this!” But being the stubborn “You gonna be educated” raised mom I was i refused to backdown on his education. My only problem with Skylar was “Is my child grasping this?” Am I really over my head with making sure he is getting his education ? My mom worries about her little Sky, and that I am doing him wrong by denying him public education. You see my son Skylar is a special young man. His development, one doctor said my child was behind by 18 months mentally…hmmm . Soo he’s gonna remain childish and full of imagination? So my mother feels he’s a little slow. (laughing) “Mom, I assure you that this child exists in a different plane than us!” He learns differently. Some call it Asperger, I call him my Awesome Aspie! His learning style is different true, but he is not malfunctioning in anyway mentally, He’s just wired differently and understands on a different level. I’m new at this and want to fit the standards for education like reading writing , Scripture and math, but we let him choose how he can add to that.” She looked at me as if I was crazy. Shook her head then left the room mumbling about “That child’s not gonna be able to take care of himself if something happens to you two.” …Sounds Morbid huh? She thinks he can’t make change at a grocery store and tie his shoes..but we love her and those issues have been taken care of thank you very much! Well instead of getting upset about her opinion of my mothering skills, I began to think of how my son learns and is he retaining anything he has learned. Back to Skylar doing some type of work in the book, I noticed his body language and his face about doing it in the book. Mention any type of “school” anything sends him into a complete body cringe! He does what he’s told but boy is he not happy about it. Some would say That’s right he should do school work to prove he is learning something..cause uh you know he’s special… Yeah I get things like that from folks but I just smile and say to my self You have No Idea how awesome and blessed my child is! Anyway things got quite for a while. My hubby sitting near me playing his COD3 and here at the computer scrolling twitter I listen to my son sniffeling in the background looking upset and disgruntled. What was going on in his swirling brain? was it too much for him? No I would say quite that. He is short on words by choice and him saying I don’t want to do that, he meant he wanted to do something else. I kept my face to the screen as he sighed and called for his dad. Dad came to his son and Skylar spoke. ” I have a problem dad. I was working on my Five Nights at Skylars game design. You see when you stopped me from playing any FNAF WORLD, fan games and I was doing the coding for it!” It seems “coding” is a learning trigger for him. He can function mathematically in his head as he adjusts the coding in his game to make it work as he likes. So long story short..without further fuss he happily returned to his programming and my husband and I were satisfied that he was stimulating his brain!
I had to share this